Thursday, November 29, 2012

The Lamp of the Body

"Your Eye is the lamp of your body; 
when your eye is sound, 
your whole body is full of light; 
but when it is not sound, 
your body is full of darkness.
Luke 11:34

We think the world would be saved if only 
we could generate larger quantities of goodwill and tolerance. 

That's false. 

What will save the world is not goodwill and tolerance 
but clear thinking. 

Of what use is it to be tolerant of others if you are convinced that 
you are right and everyone who disagrees with you is wrong? 

That is not tolerance but condescension. 

That leads not to union of hearts but to division, because 
you are one up and the others one down. 

A position that can only lead to a sense of superiority on your part 
and resentment on your neighbor's, thereby breeding further intolerance.

True tolerance only arises from a keen awareness 
of the abysmal ignorance of everyone as far as truth is concerned. 

For truth is essentially mystery. 

The mind can sense but cannot grasp it, much less formulate it. 

Our beliefs can point to it but cannot put it into words. 

In spite of this, people talk glowingly about the value of dialogue 
which at worst is a camouflaged attempt to convince the other person 
of the rightness of your position and at best will prevent you from becoming 
a frog in the  well who thinks that his well is the only world there is.
What is clear thinking and how does one arrive at it? 

The first thing you must know is that it does not call for any great learning. 

It is so simple as to be within the reach of a ten-year-old child. 

What's needed is not learning but unlearning, 
not talent but courage. 

You'll understand this if you think of a little child 
in the arms of an old, disfigured housemaid. 

The child is too young to have picked up the prejudices of its elders. 

So when it snuggles in that woman's arms, it is responding 
not to labels in its head; labels like white woman, black woman, ugly, 
pretty, old, young, mother, servant maid, it is responding 
not to labels such as these but to reality. 

That woman meets the child's need for love and 
that is the reality the child responds to, not the woman's name
 and figure and religion and race and sect. 

Those are totally and absolutely irrelevant. 

The child has as yet no beliefs and no prejudices. 

This is the environment within which clear thinking can occur. 

And to achieve it one must drop everything one has learned 
and achieve the mind of the child that is innocent of past experiences and programming which so cloud our way of looking at reality.

What clear thinking calls for is not intelligence--
that is easily come by--
 but the courage that has successfully coped with fear and with desire, 
for the moment you desire something or fear something, 
your heart will consciously or unconsciously get in the way of your thinking.

This is a consideration for spiritual giants 
who have come to realize that in order to find truth, 
they need, not doctrinal formulations, 
but a heart that divests itself of its programming and its self-interest 
each time that thinking is in progress; 

a heart that has nothing to protect 
and owes nothing to ambition 
and therefore leaves the mind to roam 
unfettered, fearless and free, 
in search of truth; 

a heart that is ever ready to accept new evidence 
and to change its views. 

Such a heart then becomes a lamp that enlightens 
the darkness of the whole body of humanity. 

If all human beings were fitted with such hearts 
people would no longer think of themselves 

as communists 

or capitalists, 

as Christians 

or Muslims 

or Buddhists. 

The very clarity of their thinking would show them 
that all thinking, all concepts, all beliefs are lamps full of darkness, 
signs of their ignorance. 

And in that realization 
the walls of their separate wells would collapse 
and they would be invaded by 
the ocean that unites all people in the truth.

From The Way to Love by Anthony DeMello

Mercy!



NYPD officer photographed giving boots to barefoot homeless man melts icy hearts online


A photo of a New York City police officer kneeling down to give a barefoot homeless man in Times Square a pair of boots on a cold November night is melting even the iciest New Yorkers' hearts online.
On Nov. 14, NYPD officer Lawrence DePrimo, who was on counterterrorism duty in Times Square, saw the older homeless man without shoes sitting on 42nd Street. DePrimo, 25, left and then returned with a pair of $100 boots he bought at a nearby Skechers store.
"It was freezing out, and you could see the blisters on the man's feet," DePrimo, a three-year veteran of the department who lives with his parents on Long Island, told the New York Times. "I had two pairs of socks, and I was still cold."
The random act of kindness was captured by Jennifer Foster, a tourist from Florence, Ariz., who was visiting the city. Foster, communications director for the Pinal County Sheriff's Office in Arizona, emailed the photo to the NYPD with a note commending DePrimo.
"The officer said, 'I have these size 12 boots for you, they are all-weather. Let's put them on and take care of you,'" Foster wrote. "The officer squatted down on the ground and proceeded to put socks and the new boots on this man.
"I have been in law enforcement for 17 years," she continued. "I was never so impressed in my life. ... It is important, I think, for all of us to remember the real reason we are in this line of work. The reminder this officer gave to our profession in his presentation of human kindness has not been lost."
Foster's photo was posted on the NYPD's Facebook page on Tuesday, where it received more than 320,000 "likes," 77,000 "shares" and 20,000 comments—most of them praising DePrimo, who seems to have restored Facebook's faith in humanity.
"This is one hell of a police officer," Desiree Wright-Borden wrote.
"Wow," Jack Horton wrote. "It's nice to know there are still good people out there."
"Angels truly do walk on earth!!!" Charlene Hoffman-Pestell wrote.
Some commenters, though, were skeptical, saying the photo could have been staged.
"Clever stunt!" Louis Zehmke wrote. "The hobo is 'parked' at the entrance of a shoe shop."
But Foster claims DePrimo had no idea he was being photographed: "The officer expected NOTHING in return and did not know I was watching."

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Scenes from a Sleepover

 Dear Santa, I want one of these.
 What happened
 to the rest of me?
 Wild Child
 Playing tag
 Hey!
 Where'd they come from?
 In Corndog Heaven
 Happy Face
 The requisite cookie
 He wanted gloves...
 The new tractor...Wow!
Tractor Family

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Early Christmas present for all of us!

Consider the Lilies
Whew! 
This lesson feels like a breath of fresh air for me.
I forget to remember this, and yet, 
while reading it I am constantly thinking
"Well, of course!"

It's not that it's an easy lesson; it's that it is just so obvious.
Why would I ever resist something this obvious?

"Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious 
about your life...look at the birds of the air...
consider the lilies of the field."
Matthew 6:25

Everyone at some time or the other experiences feelings 
of what is known as insecurity. 

You feel insecure with the amount of money you have in the bank, 
or the amount of love you are getting from your friend or 
the type of educational background you have had. 

Or you have insecurity feelings regarding your health 
or your age or your physical appearance. 

If you were asked the question, 
"What is it that makes you feel insecure?" 
you would almost certainly give the wrong answer. 

You might say, "I don't have enough of the love of a friend" or 
"I don't have the kind of academic training that I need," or some such thing. 

In other words, you would point to some outside condition 
not realizing that insecurity feelings are not generated by anything 
outside of you, but only by your emotional programming
by something you are telling yourself in your head. 

Trust me here ...this is good news!

If you changed your program, 
your insecure feelings would vanish in a second, 
even though everything in the outside world remained 
exactly as it was before. 

MAGIC?

One person feels quite secure with practically no money in the bank, 
another feels insecure even though he has millions. 

It isn't the amount of money but their programming 
that makes the difference. 

One person has no friends, yet feels perfectly secure in the love of people. 
Another feels insecure even in the most possessive 
and exclusive of relationships. 

Again the difference is in the programming.

If you wish to deal with your feelings of insecurity 
there are four facts that you must study well and understand.

1. It is futile to ease your insecurity feelings by trying 
to change things outside of you. 

Your efforts may be successful, though mostly they are not. 

They may bring some relief, but the relief will be short-lived.

So it is not worth the energy and time you spend in improving 
your physical appearance or making more money or getting 
further reassurances of love from your friends.

2. This fact will lead you to tackle the problem 
where it really is, inside your head

Think of the people who in exactly the same condition 
that you find yourself in now would not feel the slightest insecurity. 

There are such people. 

Therefore the problem lies not with reality outside of you 
but with you, in your programming.

3. You must understand that this programming of yours 
was picked up from insecure people who, when  you were very young 
and impressionable, taught you by their behavior and their panic reactions that every time the outside world did not conform to a certain pattern, 
you must create an emotional turmoil within yourself called insecurity. 

And you must do everything in your power to rearrange the outside world--
make more money, 
seek more reassurances, 
placate and please the people you have offended, etc., etc.--
in order to make the insecurity feelings go away. 

The mere realization that you don't have to do this, 
that doing this really solves nothing, and that 
the emotional turmoil is caused solely by you and your culture--
this realization alone distances you from the problem 
and brings considerable relief.

It's workable...

4. Whenever you are insecure 
about what may happen in the future, just remember this: 

In the past six months or one year you were so insecure about events 
which when they finally came you were able to handle somehow, 
Thanks to the energy and resources that that particular 
present moment 
gave you, and not to all the previous worrying which only made you 
suffer needlessly and weakened you emotionally. 

The doing is always in the present moment; 
it can't be done anywhere else!

So, say to yourself: 

"If there is anything I can do about the future, right now, I shall do it. 
Then I'm going to just leave it alone 
and settle down to enjoy the present moment, 
because all the experience of my life has shown me 
that I can only cope with things when they are present, 
not before they occur. 
And that the present always gives me 
the resources and the energy I need to deal with them."

It's important to have something else to focus on in the moment,
something that you delight in doing or something that 
takes you out into Nature and the larger world.

The final disappearance of insecurity feelings will only come 
when you have attained that blessed ability 
of the birds of the air and the flowers of the field 
to live fully in the present, 
one moment at a time. 

The present moment, no matter how painful, 
is never unbearable. 

What IS unbearable is 
what you think is going to happen in five hours or in five days 
and those words you keep saying in your head like, 
"This is terrible, 
this is unbearable, 
how long is this going to last," 
and so on. 

Birds and flowers are blessed above humans in that 
they have no concept of the future, 
no words in their heads, and no anxiety about 
what their fellows think of them. 

That is why they are such perfect images of the kingdom. 

Of the promised land of joy and peace...
eternal, abundant LIFE
right here and 
NOW!

So do not be anxious about tomorrow, 
tomorrow will look after itself. 

Each day has troubles enough of its own. 

Set your mind on God's kingdom
It's happening right here, right now, don't miss it.
 before everything else
 and all the rest will come to you as well.

Yes!
It's the only way and not Polyanna at all.

It is absolutely logical and in the natural order of things.
It is WHAT IS...
already allowed and bearable!

In this context worrying makes absolutely no sense at all.
It is totally worthless, wasted energy, 
accomplishing nothing except 
to create hell on earth!

And you are free to do it, or not,
for the rest of your life.

Happy angel!

Thanks, Coco, for this new addition 
to the mantel...

Is it Winter yet?

 Last evening's moon bringing in the cold front...
and early morning evidence that it arrived!

Monday, November 26, 2012

Can it be?




Holiday Faces

Little Lottie
 Oh so thankful for her pepper
and oh so tired!

Fire on the Earth Part 2

Now is the time to see that 
absolutely nothing outside of you 
can bring you lasting joy. 
Every now and then, I think I get it...a glimpse of this freedom.
But the moment you do that 
you will notice that a fear arises in your heart. 
Perhaps it is this fear that clouds the promise.
That fear that if you allow the discontent to be, 
it will turn into a raging passion that will grip you and cause you 
to revolt against everything that your culture and your religion hold dear; 
against a whole way of thinking and feeling and perceiving the world 
that they have brainwashed you into accepting. 
Yikes! This is heavy stuff...brainwashing?! Think "marketing"
This devouring flame will cause you not just to rock the boat 
but to burn the boat to ashes. 
I will not be manipulted!
Suddenly you will find yourself living in an altogether different world, 
infinitely removed from the world of the people around you
Oooooh, that feels like separation. 
from everything that others hold dear,
even more separation 
everything they are crying their hearts out for; 
honor, 
power, 
acceptance, 
approval, 
security, 
wealth, 
is seen for the stinking garbage that it is. 
Oh, that world! The world of cheap thrills and illusive security...
It disgusts and nauseates. 
DeMello is obviously not speaking from a non-duality perspective. 
Non-duality would suggest there are no separate worlds, 
just different ways to be in the world, no judgement.
Hmmm...I'll need to ponder this one. 
And everything others are forever running away from 
holds no terrors for you anymore.
Hmmm...what would that be?  
Not having enough, not being prepared, not knowing 

You have become serene and fearless and free, 
for you have stepped out of your illusory world and into 
the kingdom.

And here is a parable of that kingdom: 

It is like a treasure lying buried in a field. 
The man who found it buried it again, and for sheer joy went 
and sold everything he had and bought that field. 
It's not the so-called "buried treasure" we thought we had to have; it's allowing--
treasuring 
the WHOLE FIELD of life, of experience, 
of whatever may come in each and every moment 
that brings eternal joy and peace!
It's not down there somewhere, to be sought and dug up;
it's already here
everywhere.

If you haven't found the treasure as yet, 
don't waste your time searching for it. 
It can be found but it may not be searched for. 
Sounds like a riddle, eh?
You don't have the slightest notion what the the real treasure is. 

All you are familiar with is 
the drugged happiness of your present existence. 
the thrill-seeking, contentment-longing "wild ride"

So what would you search for? 
And where? 

No, search rather in your heart for 
the spark of discontent 
and tend the flame till it becomes a conflagration and 
your world is burned down to a heap of rubble.
Get into a genuine, full-fledged flame-feeding frenzy.

Young or old, most of us are discontented 
merely because we want something--
more knowledge, a better job, a finer car, a bigger salary.

Our discontent is based upon our desire for "the more."
It is only because we want something more 
that most of us are discontented.
I find myself wanting less and less 
and being more and more content with enough...CHECK!

But I am not talking about that kind of discontent. 
Oooops...you're not? I thought I had that one taken care of.

It is the desire for "the more" that prevents clear thinking. 
Because we just reflexively replace the discontent with 
the next thing we think need more of--the fix. 
  
(But) If we are dissatisfied, not with anything in particular but with 
everything, 
then we shall find that 
our discontent brings clarity. 
Ah!
When we don't accept or follow, 
but question, investigate, penetrate, there is 
an insight out of which comes 
creativity
joy.
The Divine Detour 

Mostly the discontent that you feel comes from not having 
enough of something--
you are dissatisfied because you think you do not have 
enough money or power or success or fame or virtue or love, or holiness. 
This is all "fixable"!
This is not the discontent that leads to 
the joy of the kingdom.
It's all temporary. 
Its source is greed and ambition 
and its fruit is restlessness and frustration.
The Vicious Cycle 

The day you are discontented 
not because you want more of something 
but without knowing 
what 
it is you want; 
when you are sick at heart of 
everything that you have been pursuing so far 
and you are sick of the pursuit itself, 
then your heart will attain a great clarity, 
an insight that will cause you mysteriously to delight in 
 everything 
and in 
nothing.
It's no longer a matter of 
something other than what already is!

And out of that very present place comes 
clarity and peace of mind 
and joy of spirit,
where CREATIVITY flourishes.
It's Nature's way.

From: THE WAY TO  LOVE by Anthony DeMello

Sunday, November 25, 2012