Thursday, July 31, 2014

Out of the mouths of babes...


When we sat down for Mother's service at the cemetery, 
Sawyer sat in my lap and showed me 
the little program with Mother's picture in it.
He said, "Look Emmy...it's GG; she died.  
How did she?"

7-year-old cousin Gwyneth, who was sitting 
in the row in front of us, turned around and whispered, 
"She had bacteria on her brain."

That seemed to be as good an answer as any.

Then Caleb, sitting on my right, 
looked at the picture on his little program and said, 
"GG was so nice."

Sometimes kids say it just right.


Wednesday, July 30, 2014

"Emmy, I can always tell it's you from the back 
because of your hair and your fun clothes."
~Caleb


Sunday, July 27, 2014

"Somewhere between right and wrong, 
there is a garden.  

I will meet you there."

~Rumi
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Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Tributes

Oh, Sarah, what a warrior she was!  
When I think of devotion, your mother comes to mind.  
She was such a faithful wife and I know she and your sweet daddy 
must be conversing and dancing right now. 

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Tributes

We have precious memories of your Mother...being "Granny Hill" to Melissa growing up, and Betty to me/us.  She was a wonderful part of lots of our family times and special occasions.  She & your daddy were always welcome, sweet additions to Mulkey gatherings.  And we enjoyed several great Hill gatherings!  I have many memories of shared celebrations -- meals, game-playing, laughter.  They were good sports and good-humored!  

She was a lively, fun, talented (boy, have I missed her seamstress skills!), sweet LADY -- always a lady.  Her beautiful blue eyes stayed so lively, at least through my last visit, which was some time ago, but she still knew who I was and carried on an enjoyable conversation!  

Sarah will remember, but Susan did you know that she hosted my bridesmaids' luncheon back in 1979?  I don't think I even knew YOU yet, then!  That's just one example of her kindness, generosity and sweet spirit.  I remember her excitement when I dropped by to see her after we'd been to Italy.  It was like she hung on every word, so enthusiastic and happy.  That's the day the gal at Wisteria woke her from a nap, telling me that it was about time for her to get up anyway, to go to her Bridge game! 

She and your Daddy lived such rich, full, long lives, and it's easy to say but hard to really internalize that they are gone from this earth and life, as we will also be one day.  The generations they created live on, as does their legacy of how they lived life.  I know that my folks and yours have/had lots of similar life philosophies & beliefs and made many similar choices in the paths they chose and how they navigated life.  And, as I guess is true with all families, may those best parts be forever remembered, cherished and incorporated into our own lives and ways & the rest be diminished over time.  

I'm thinking of you two sisters, not knowing how it feels, yet anticipating walking in your shoes in the months/years to come.  I'm rather nostalgic now; I'm feeling thankful and blessed to have known them & had them in our lives, and honestly also feeling relief that they have now each/both met their end of earthly life with its burdens of age & physical hardships.  I'm  believing they are together in loving spirit, forever young.  And, am thankful the end has come to her roller-coaster ride of a finale.  My hearts hurt with yours during your sadder times and sings with yours during your higher times...ah, life! 
 


Tributes

Your mom was such a spirited lady!  
I will forever be in her debt for helping my mom get settled 
in Mesa Springs and also at Wisteria.  
She had a big heart and was truly a dignified, Southern lady.  
You were blessed with precious parents.  
I also understand the feeling of peace to know she isn’t here 
in a world she could no longer enjoy 
and that now she is back with your dad 
and singing in heaven!

Eyes to See

Soon after Daddy died, 
every time Mother and I would be out in the car driving, 
she would comment on the clouds.
"Aren't they beautiful!"
I thought of this when I looked up today.
Yes, they are!

Monday, July 21, 2014

Missing Mother...

Death closes a door, but it opens so many more.
Here's what caught my eye when I got up this morning:
 "Beyond the Sunset"
 Goodness!

At last...and for all

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Tuesday Date Nite

 CiCi's Pizza & Brownie - YUM!
Look what he picked to do next...
 And he's OFF!



Round 52!!

On the way home:
"Emmy I want to hear your voice all the time."